single and comfy

and so yesterday night i went to a nearby starbucks with a number of friends. maybe it's the coffee (i should've asked for a decaf rhumba instead..) or maybe it's the ambience being outdoor and everything or maybe it's just the people - four singles (3 guys and 1 gal), we talked alot about relationships in our lives (or probably more about the lack of it....haha...)

why do people plunge themselves in a relationship? some does it bcoz they can't bear being alone, some bcoz they need someone to care and love while some just need someone to kill the time with. i for once would like to be in a relationship WHEN there is the need to do so. only when the "right" person comes along then i would decide to jump shark and change my status to *gasp* "in a relationship".

>>> reality check reality check..harlow~ earth calling spie_dee, you are what? 25 going to be 26 soon and you're still waiting? until when may i be so polite to inquire?

i have no idea, seriously speaking maybe along the road all of us (me?) will lower our standards of expectation towards our significant other but for now i think i still have some time to spend roaming about all by myself.

a friend even suggested that she might not even marry if she can't find the right person. but the question is probably does the "right" person exist at the first place? okay maybe i'm a bit skeptic about the whole quest to find the right person but in my opinion at a certain point in our lives we will finally realize that the right person is what you make out of your significant other, you don't need to search high and low for him/her.

well i suppose before that "enlightenment" comes i can actually say that i am single and pretty comfy by myself (let's just hope it's just a passing phase though...)