lost in words

this is insane, it's been 3 weeks since i have written an entry in my blog. it's not that there isn't anything eventful these days, in fact there are so many things going on at the same time i haven't got the time to put them into words. first exam is coming this saturday *eeekk* i hope i'll be able to maintain my previous CAP, i'm not even thinking of getting anything better. come on, a lil' reality here...

"Communication. It's the first thing we really learn in life. Funny thing is, once we grow up, learn our words and really start talking the harder it becomes to know what to say. Or how to ask for what we really need."

a friend was telling me about this quote from the tv series grey's anatomy. although i haven't got the time to watch the show, i've decided to nevertheless write it here. don't you think it's so true?

sometimes we hope that people understand how we feel and what we need, we ASSUME so many things and when things don't happen as expected we become so disappointed with those people. during those times i guess what we need to do is just say it. we refrain most of the times. *well i do* how many times have you contemplated and think "hey, he/she should know better!"? we expect others to read between the lines and understand. *sigh*

it's ironic isn't it. words is a mean of communication to express what we think or feel but there are so many times when the meaning gets lost in the words we try to say. and there are times when we hope we can take back the things we have just said. maybe we should observe the little human and see what we can learn from them...