a change of heart

i had one post regarding this friend who recently *at that time* received a promotion and acted like a total bastard (refer to my 13th may 2005 post) well guess what, he just got demoted...turns out the bosses found out about his incompetence and kind of took his subordinates away from me *together with most of his responsibilities* well he gets to keep the company car and the salary buuuuuut other than that, in terms of responsibilities he is now no different than me? *an ASSt manager..haha..*

i shall not be a total bastard as to bicker him in my blog. (i've done enough with my friends in the office..hahahaha)

the SHOCKING thing is that he suddenly out of the blue turns nice again. bye bye mr hyde haaa~~~rlow doctor jeckyl. odd right? well there are two ways to look at this situation i think. one, he realizes that he is such an ASS *in every way literal* that he decided to clean his act. two, he needs us now that the bosses aren't very fond of him....

of course, my initial reaction was to ignore him and his sudden change in mood but an online friend pointed out to me to "love thy enemy" *sigh* have you thought about this? it is seriously very easy to love and care for people we are fond of but for those who have treated us badly it is so very hard.

dunno what i should do now, i'd probably take it one step at a time. are we one to judge whether a person is wrong or right, maybe they have their own reasons for being nasty?

but then again another friend also told me that i should learn to shrugg off "these kind of shits". how very true.