Happy Valentine 2005

a reflection upon valentine *or the lack of it*

being the voyeur that i am, i was browsing through my friends' testimonials at the friendster.com and i realized that gals go for SNAGs (re:Sensitive New Age Guys) more than tough guys nowadays or do they? *raise one eyebrow*

i always think testimonials are extremely superficial but if you really read between the lines it can get very interesting...if you browse through a guy's testimonial,you'd most probably find a "he's one tough person, very cool and indifferent but inside he's actually a sensitive softy kind of person" or something along the line..it kept me pondering for quite some time...is that a compliment?an insult in disguise?

think about it...how do gals reject guys?*reference from a friend of the writer..but of course..hehe* they go "you're a nice guy,i bet you'll find someone better than me" what crap? i don't want anyone better than you..I WANT YOU!!!

i actually have quite a number of female friends who tell me stories about which guys they find interesting or those whom they find LAME *with a capital L.A.M.E* do you know they find SNAGs boring? uninteresting? monotonous? seriously! SNAGs are their friends but a guy with a wild streak is a potential boyfriend...what is this? double standard!

so the next time you are interested in a particular someone,please by all means,don't open doors for her,don't talk politely to her, and don't ever speak unless asked *if you're lucky you might even fall into the "cool" category*. a short advice for those guys out there, when a friend *esp.female* tells you that you're a SNAG, unless you want to be single all your life, by all means deny all facts, reject the testimonials, just keep the truth yourself! it's a good feeling to know that you are a SNAG but it's a better feeling to be attached...

btw, i am writing not because i'm a SNAG,i'm just concern with how gals can be so stereotypical *tsk tsk tsk* *grin!*